Well I got alot thrown at me tonite now im in a bit of a quandry. Theres this man who I have been friends with for quite a few years now. He is 3 years younger than me and has recently seperated from his common law wife 6 months ago. She was very much younger than him, ya know the ultimate thing Older man and much younger woman, and they have two very young beautiful *****. The boy is 3 and the little girl is 2 and a half. Anyway thats the background so now comes the rest of the story. She left him and dumped the ***** on him for the last 6 months, he has been a wonderful father to these ***** and his mom has kind of replaced their mother figure with this grandmother. He is a US citizen and his ***** have dual citizenship and since he has told her is seeking full legal custody of his ***** a shit storm happened. She is perhaps 26 and a pretty little blonde thing that has an alcohol and drug problem which i have witnessed myself and im not talking just weed either, If he is sucessful in his bid to get custody the government of canada will get her for a $3000.00 bill for the ***** monthly allowance cheque which she has been collecting for the last 6 months even though she has not had custody of the *****. Tonight she served him an affidavit which was delivered by the RCMP asking him to be in court on Nov 23 where she will ask that the ***** be released to go home with her and her drug dealing boyfriend. Since he is a US citizen and a landed immigrant there is a good possibility that this could happen. But it would be more difficult for her if he married a Canadian woman so that he would be legally able to fight this in court. So I have told him that if this is what it takes that I may be the one to marry him. I also told him to see how far he gets in court first because if he is getting married he can continue to fight for his ***** and may even get custody. But if things dont go his way I am seriously thinking that I would marry him in July of 2012 but still reside in our own homes and that the marriage would not be consumated. I dont really know if this is the right thing to do but it would save these ***** from a difficult upbringing if she has them. He has a wonderful home and the ***** dont want for anything and his mom helps with the ***** every day. She stole them a couple weeks ago when the welfare was gonna b at her home and she wanted them in order to get more food at the food bank. After she got what she wanted she dropped them off again and hasnt seen them since. I am just wondering if this is the right thing to do after all its only on paper....Well i have a little while to decide at least to the new year anyway....Will keep ya posted to those of you who follow these silly things LOL I could use some help so if ya wanna comment but i will only except 2 comments
Yeah I'd do it
Are you fucking totally Insane :P
InsaneBytch:
Is it the right thing to do
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