How-are-you wrote: normally i don't speak to people right away,i see how they are by looking and how they conduct themselves in the chat rooms,but this woman i clickled on her cam and not even a minute pass,right away blocked! i don't expect to see people naked right away as soon i see them with their cam on,i'm aware of that,but i think if you feel that way that you just want to be watched by your buddies and not everyone else in the chat,don't even turn it on! she should take that as a compliment that someone is looking at her cam and she wasn't even naked,but whatever,idon't demand,i may ask one time and try to do it in a polite way since this women are so touchy,don't want to get them mad and get blocked! if they say no,that's it! i leave it alone,but it's okay,furtunally i have found some nice people in the chat,very few but i had.Thanks for reading and answering!
I do think the site is in serious danger of becoming very very cliquey. I don't think us oldies are rude necessarily but there's a very low level of tolerance for people's mistakes or people being new - I know I'm guilty of it. Janey and anyone else is free to block whoever they want, and I don't know the background so I won't comment on it, but it raises a point I've always wondered about here:
This is a porn site.
Yes there's a little community here, and it's a commercial-grade-porn free zone, but ultimately, It's a porn site.
If you're on cam in chat, male or female, it means people are going to want to see nekkidness. It might mean people the same sex as you are watching. It might mean someone you've never chatted to is watching you. I don't think that's unreasonable, and it shouldn't surprise anyone. If, honestly, people badgering you for a show causes such grief... stop going on cam. There, I said it. Trolls are a pain in the arse. But going on cam in a porn chatroom and refusing to show? To say that's counter-productive is rather an understatement. It's inviting a certain kind of attention, and if that's attention you're not comfortable with, then not going on cam is a pretty good way of avoiding it. I've blocked people for being assholes in chat, or annoying me. But we can't blame pervs on a porn site for expecting to see skin when they see a cam icon. Which is not to say everyone with a cam should be naked and fucking all the time every time.
I know there are people here who come to chat with their friends - that's great and it makes the place a community in the first place. But the balance is being tipped away from the porn and towards the random chatting. That's a mistake. If you want a place to chat with your friends, there are a hundred thousand places to do it. Perving for free with like minded pervs? There aren't too many places to do that. I've met some great people on this site and had a lot of fun, but I'll be 100% honest with you - I came here for the porn. Didn't you? When I'm in the chatroom, I like to chat. But I'd prefer some tits. I'd prefer some fucking. I'd especially like some lesbian strapon action. But the environment in some rooms sometimes is very much against it, as though us pervs are disrupting things. Even the number of shameless men wanking on cam has gone down, because there isn't an audience for it - in fact, I heard a report that a user in the chatroom threatened to block any men wanking on cam. I mean, what? Pervs are now communicating in IM's and whispers to each other because the chatroom isn't conducive to perverted chat. Shame.
My attitude? Bring back porn sites for the porn lovers. If you're not here to perv, then don't make things difficult for people who are.
My 2c.
I predict it will make me enemies. :)